What if journaling was finally about telling the truth?

In this conversation, Kristan Swan—creator of Spaghetti on the Wall—breaks down how journaling evolves from childhood “emotion dumps” into a powerful adult practice for clarity, self-trust, and real change. She shares how a journal can become a safe, judgment-free space to process the thoughts we’re often too afraid to say out loud—and why that matters for our relationships and sense of self.

Together, they unpack the real barriers to journaling—fear of being seen, not knowing what to write—and how simple, structured prompts can turn reflection into a daily, 12-minute habit. Kristan introduces her unique approach: separating observation from evaluation to reduce negative self-talk and create more honest, useful awareness.

The conversation expands into identity, burnout, and the pressure to always have answers—exploring what it means to step out of “human doing” and into a more creative, curious way of living. At its core, this episode is about slowing down, getting honest, and learning to trust yourself again.

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My walks with Maisie covered the same ground at least once a day if not multiple times a day, and I am still noticing new things or observing more closely the things I thought I knew. The same can happen when we revisit a book, a painting, a piece of music, or even attend a weekly meeting with the same people. Staying curious in the familiar may yield the biggest surprises.

There is a ghost in my closet

From a very early age I was drawn to clothing and other adornments. I loved going through my grandmothers’ closets and jewelry drawers, examining each piece and occasionally trying things on. While neither grandmother owned anything very fancy or costly, I never got tired of combing through the treasure trove of their dressers and closets. 

The Story You’re still Writing

The Story You’re still Writing

The Story You're still Writing No matter how broken, lost, or uncertain life may feel, your story is not finished. In this episode, we talk about healing, growth, identity, and the quiet power of choosing to keep going-even when life doesn't look the way you imagined....