What if journaling was finally about telling the truth?

In this conversation, Kristan Swan—creator of Spaghetti on the Wall—breaks down how journaling evolves from childhood “emotion dumps” into a powerful adult practice for clarity, self-trust, and real change. She shares how a journal can become a safe, judgment-free space to process the thoughts we’re often too afraid to say out loud—and why that matters for our relationships and sense of self.

Together, they unpack the real barriers to journaling—fear of being seen, not knowing what to write—and how simple, structured prompts can turn reflection into a daily, 12-minute habit. Kristan introduces her unique approach: separating observation from evaluation to reduce negative self-talk and create more honest, useful awareness.

The conversation expands into identity, burnout, and the pressure to always have answers—exploring what it means to step out of “human doing” and into a more creative, curious way of living. At its core, this episode is about slowing down, getting honest, and learning to trust yourself again.

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Aeschylus, the father of tragedy

Of course, introducing another person into our lives is where drama begins. How often have I thought that everything would be just great if not for something this person did or how that person behaved? Just as Aeschylus figured out in his plays, our lives are much more challenging and interesting because of the people we spend time with, the people we love, the people we randomly encounter each day.

Slow down.

Distinguishing between important and urgent has been one of my on-going discussions with myself. I am susceptible to acting like there is not enough time to accomplish all that is on my list. In reality, when I slow down, time slows down. I needed a reminder and I got not just one, several.

Finding God in the Quiet

Finding God in the Quiet

In this heartfelt conversation, Kristan sat down with licensed minister Laura Sharp-Waites to talk about what happens when life feels heavy, faith feels distant, and you're carrying more than you know how to hold. Laura shares how seasons of physical, emotional, and...