The PARADOX of Choice: Why Too Many Options Are Paralyzing Young Adults

What happens when you embrace failure as your greatest teacher?

In this transformative episode, hosts Jeff Hinderscheid and Victoria Jones welcome special guest Kristan Swan for an honest conversation about the challenges of navigating life, career, and personal growth in a world full of choices, social pressures, and technology.

Kristan shares her unique journey as a serial entrepreneur, business coach, and educator, revealing how each “failure” became a stepping stone to discovering her true calling in small group leadership. Together, they discuss: ● How to navigate the pressure of early career decisions and the “paradox of choice” that paralyzes teens and young adults ● The power of collecting experiences and building a “personal board of directors” ● Staying authentic and genuine in a world influenced by social media and AI ● Turning setbacks and failures into opportunities for reflection and growth Plus, advice for supporting others through burnout and self-doubt Whether you’re a student figuring out your next step, a professional considering a career shift, or simply seeking ways to live more authentically in our AI-dominated world, this conversation is full of actionable insights and heartfelt stories.

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