One of the writing exercises we do as part of the Discovering your Spiritual Autobiography Workshop is to reflect on a keepsake or one’s legacy. Here is the exercise introduction: Keepsake -an item or collection of items with special meaning, an...
Spaghetti on the Wall
Why do you need this journal?
-You are a dream machine. So many good ideas, so little time. This is a place to name and sort all your great ideas.
-You wish you were a better communicator. Good communication is something we learn, not something we are born with. Start by communicating better with yourself.
-You find yourself thinking about the same things over and over. Learn how to reflect and learn from your past to build a better future.
Spaghetti on the Wall is a journal designed for you.
Enjoy!
As a therapist, I have done tons of training in human development. Kristan stands out for her genuine empathy and interest in all that makes you who you are. Above all, she is witty, just laugh out loud funny. She lights up the room.
I have used her Spaghetti On the Wall workbook with clients and they say the reflections slow them down, turn inward and think differently about themselves and their relationships. The workbook is effective and to the point. I can’t wait for her next one.
Jeannie P, AMFT and APCC
Mother’s Day
The past couple of weeks I didn’t write. Okay, that is not completely true. I would sit down and type out a few sentences then I would abandon the computer full of self-doubt and find my way back to one of the three books I am reading. I find...
Holding Hands
Jenny grabs my hand and doesn’t let go. We end up walking and talking, holding hands. The first time she held my hand, it was a surprise. We didn’t really know each other well. Our friendship began as social acquaintances. We met through a mutually...
Driving
I could not wait to get my driver’s license. In order to prepare for the driver’s permit test, I saved up my babysitting earnings and attended Driver’s Education at the Dootson Driving School. The classes took place over the course of several...
Multi-hyphenate
Being celebrated or recognized as a multi-hyphenate has now become part of our everyday lexicon. This notion that someone can excel in a multitude of disciplines and that people may defy a single defining term or classification is being put forth...
Ice Cream
I can be really stubborn. I know this about myself, and my family knows it too. Stubbornness is not a trait that I attempt to cultivate. In fact, it is just the opposite. I am continually reminding myself to be flexible and open. Many years ago, I...
Graduation Day
Yesterday evening in the sliver of time between finishing computer work and starting dinner, I read a chat post from Suleika Jaouad. If you do not know who she is then I would recommend checking out her books, art, and more, Suleika Jaouad . The...
Lessons learned before their time
Another trip to Michigan, this time, things were serious. My then husband’s elderly mom Diane had fallen and injured her head. We arrived just in time to visit with her. She had regained consciousness after surgery to relieve the pressure. Sue,...
First Impressions
Not long ago, we hosted a couple to celebrate their recent engagement. My husband had known the woman for several years, and we were getting to know her fiancé better. As dessert was being served, the fiancé mentioned to my husband that they had...